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Step 1: Check all SQL servers in the cluster, make sure they are in sync. See:
- How to check the status of a MySQL Dual-Master cluster
- How to check the status of a MS-SQL Merge-Replication cluster
Step 2: Upgrade the Master/Publisher server first (VERY IMPORTANT for MS-SQL Merge Replication. Do NOT upgrade the Subscriber/Slave server first)
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